Glamour List: 10 secret signs he'll be good in bed

1. He doesn't boast about how good he is in bed (if he does—run!).

2. He can knot a necktie in five seconds flat—fine motor skills are always a plus.

3. Never in your life have you made such intense...eye contact.

4. The italian actress he dated last year still calls him.

5. He cooks sloppy but cleans up neat.

6. A surreptitious survey of his bookshelf reveals high-quality novels, substantial nonfiction—and nothing remotely resembling The System: How to Get Laid Today!

7. He talks with his hands, and he laughs with his whole body.

8. He holds open doors, waits for you before digging into dinner and generally seems to get the concept of "ladies first."

9. His bedroom light switch has a dimmer.

10. He's on the short side—think of him as "man concentrate